Lingerie Talk With Sirgai and Xavier: Do Husbands Really Care About What Their Wives Wear Underneath?
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After my interview with Olaide of Bolt Underwears, I got really
curious to know what men thought about what kind of underwear their women wore
and how they wore them, so I spoke to two married men. The question: Do husbands really care about
what their wives wear underneath. Here’s what they had to say:
Esther: Does what your
partner wear underneath matter to you at all?
Xavier: For me, it matters. And the sexier for
me, the better. I like it transparent (not completely) and colorful. They have to match, you know, like red on
red, blue on blue etc. Lingerie is meant
to be sexy.
Sirgai: No matter what sexy lingerie does to
me, if the lady does not find confidence in wearing it, there is no point. You can wear the sexiest lingerie and then carry
it with a shy attitude. It is how you
wear it that matters. You can wear grand ma pants and still rock it. You can
wear lacy, padded, whatever and rock it. For me, lacy, transparent (not
completely), matching underwear, and colors black & red works…
Xavier: It has to be clean. Underwear with
stain is out of it. I believe any woman who would go round wearing dirty
lingerie, has an irresponsible husband. If your man says he doesn’t like
something about what you wear, it should stop. Cleanliness is everything.
Sirgai: My opinion is that the responsibility
of looking good and looking appreciable should be the woman’s and not her
husband’s. If as a woman, your husband does not mind if you are wearing dirty
pants, does that mean its ok? Would you feel ok? I don’t know how any woman can
be comfortable when your husband says “it’s ok whatever you wear”. You should never be ok if your husband says
whatever you wear is ok; it simply means he is not expecting anything from
you. It means he is not expecting you to
wow him, to impress him, or you to be appreciable. Are you ok with not being appreciated? Do not complain next time you walk around
naked and he does not look. The day your husband says, “its ok, anything you
wear goes”, that’s a bloody lie. You
should never let it go. Wear what is
sexy, comfortable and that you are confident in. Wear enough and wear not just to get his
appreciation but to make you look in the mirror and be dazzled yourself.
Above all cleanliness is important. If a man really likes a
woman and when she takes off her clothes a smell hits him, he would pause.
Esther: ROTFL
Xavier: The competition out there is crazy, if
a lady does not keep it up right for her man. She will lose him directly or
indirectly.
Let me in chip this funny incident. There’s this gist I
heard back then in school about this guy who liked this girl and chased her
real hard. He says she looked like Ini-edo and that she has hips and all,
though she always wore long sleeve from head to toe. The day he got her to
visit, we were in the parlor thinking something was going on in the room only
for the lady to come out of the room about 2 minuites later and left. Then the
guy rushed out of the room and warned his flat mates sternly that if that girl
ever comes to find him, they should say he is not around. We asked why and he
said the lady had thick like wire stretch mark from neck down.
Sirgai: There are women who show their stretch
marks so you know what you get.
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